I believe you become a mother even when you are pregnant because you still have to be selfless and think about everything you do that may affect the growing baby inside of you and then when your child is born the true sacrifices begin. Somedays I feel like I'm not being a good enough mom, like I've been letting Noah sleep with me since he was 3 weeks old and I know I need to break the habit but it's been the only way I can get a decent amount of sleep at night, I need to start trying harder to get him to sleep in his bassinet. I tend to hold really high standards for myself but, this year is all about goals and making positive changes, so I'm not going to be so hard on myself, just hard enough to learn and then move on. I just want to be the best Mom to Noah. This quote above explains it perfectly.
Ang, you are a wonderful mother! Don't beat yourself up for still sleeping with him. If it's what he needs and if it's what's working then go with it. You could get one of those bed bassinets that way you could sleep in bed with him and still keep your arm on him so he knows you are there. At this age... you can never hold your baby too much. So, momma... you are doing WONDERFUL. You love him so much and take such good care of him. He has everything he could ever need.
Here are some bed options:
http://detroit.craigslist.org/okl/bab/2772851288.html You could offer him way lower than this.
http://www.amazon.com/First-Years-Secure-Sleeper-Colors/dp/B00012CHFI
Thank you Sarah and you are a wonderful mama as well :) You have been such a wonderful help, being a new mom isn't easy, but its all a learning experience and its all so worth it! If I can't get him to sleep in his bed soon I will definitly look into those links for attachable beds! Thanks again! Love ya Bestie!